judging someone’s past is unfair, but accepting it and try to get along with it is also far from fair. Mistakes can’t be erased but it can be fixed, but memories will be cycling around as long as your brain still ticking..
To make it worst, sometimes past is connected with your ego, the behavior and sense of ‘i can’t accept it’, can comes out automatically. it hurts.. badly..
Not being over reacted, but our ways of accepting someone’s past can change totally when our feeling comes to play..
maybe the word ‘trapped’ is best to describe it….